Jennifer Lopez is pressing pause on romance—and she made it crystal clear during her recent show in Bilbao, Spain.
While performing on Tuesday, July 15, as part of the European leg of her Up All Night tour, Lopez spotted a fan’s sign that read, “J Lo, marry me?” Her response? A playful laugh followed by, “I think I’m done with that. Yeah, I tried that a few times.” The candid moment was caught on camera and quickly made its way to X.
The crowd erupted in cheers and laughter as Lopez turned away, strutting off in a dazzling silver bodysuit.
J.Lo definitely knows a thing or two about walking down the aisle—she’s done it four times. Her most recent marriage, to Ben Affleck, came to an end earlier this year.
Her first trip down the aisle was with Cuban waiter Ojani Noa in February 1997, after they met while she was filming Blood and Wine in Miami. That marriage wrapped up by 1998.
Next up was her former backup dancer, Cris Judd, whom she married in 2001. That union lasted two years, and they split in 2003. Not long after, Lopez was already dating Ben Affleck before the divorce was even finalized.
Although Lopez and Affleck, now 52, got engaged back in 2002, they called it off before making it down the aisle. She went on to marry Marc Anthony in 2004, and the two were together for a decade. They share 17-year-old twins, Emme and Max.
Fast forward to 2021, Bennifer made a major comeback, sparking rumors that eventually led to their marriage in 2022. But the rekindled romance didn’t last—they finalized their divorce in January 2025. Interestingly, Lopez dedicated her ninth studio album, This Is Me…Now, released in 2024, to Affleck.
So it’s no surprise J.Lo isn’t eager to jump back into another relationship. For now, she’s living it up on stage, dazzling fans across Europe. Her Up All Night tour is set to wrap on August 12, with a final show in stunning Sardinia, Italy.
